Tuesday, June 6, 2017

My Side on True Love and marriage





  Love is natural and crystal clear feeling. It’s sacred. Love comes from heart. It never comes with a name and address.If I fell in love with someone it’s something I cannot stop.
India has great  love stories. Whether its Meera  Krishna,Kabira ,Radha stories or making of Taj Mahal the one of world wonders in remembrance of lovely wife.
Love is not always getting but losing also. Love and trust is not a commodity of market which can be purchased. It is natural. It comes naturally.
I feel pleasure while doing something for her
Whenever she disagree something I just follow her. It gives me joy.George Bernard Shaw described marriage as an institution that brings two people “under the influence of the most violent, most insane, most delusive, and most transient of passions. They are required to swear that they will remain in that excited, abnormal, and exhausting condition continuously until death do them part.” Most of our expectations about  marriage are unrealistic, based on the idea that marriage must be founded and sustained on a level of intense passionate love. 

I remember a man in my village who get married.But unfortunately wife died just after 1 month of marriage.The man never married again in life. He is wealthy and everything. But he denied any more marriage. This is pure love. Even one hour is enough. Love is more sacrifice and caring without any intention of getting back. When I care her it gives pleasure to me. That’s how I feel I love her.


Marriage is a very small term. In my words it’s a meeting of two wonderful souls who are ready to live together in all good bad and worst condition. But it’s more a kind of contract than full sacrifice. It is based on some term and conditions. But love never has any condition. It flows like sea water without any barriers. Marriage might know barriers. But love does not know barriers, boundaries, language or any other limitations.

A student asks a teacher, “What is love?”The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”

The student went to the field, go through first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders… may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one… But maybe there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted. So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, “This is love… You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person…”
“What is marriage then?” the student asked. The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, “This time you bring back a corn. You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get… This is marriage.”



The best love definition totally depends on you the way you feel it and the way you want to see it. To be honest, there is no way you can ever define what a true love is. And it becomes too difficult to define it, until you have gone through it. It is obvious and true that uttering those three words “I Love You” never makes sense until you are not able to understand your partner and sacrifice for him. - See more at: http://www.thefemalegene.com/love-definition-to-tell-what-is-love/#sthash.er2zIcwj.dpuf

             

The best love definition totally depends on you the way you feel it and the way you want to see it. To be honest, there is no way you can ever define what a true love is. And it becomes too difficult to define it, until you have gone through it. It is obvious and true that uttering those three words “I Love You” never makes sense until you are not able to understand your partner and sacrifice for him. - See more at: http://www.thefemalegene.com/love-definition-to-tell-what-is-love/#sthash.er2zIcwj.dpuf